Disclosure: I was gifted these items from IDentity Lingerie in return for a review. I only work with companies and brands aligning with my identity and the blog. All opinions remain my own. For more information, please refer to my disclosure policy.
Learn how to feel sexy and confident with high-quality lingerie from IDentity Lingerie.
I’ll admit that I’m not the most confident person when feeling sexy. It’s something that never came naturally to me. But, recently, I’ve learned how to feel sexy and confident in myself, and it all starts with finding the perfect lingerie.
I’m a huge fan of lingerie. I love anything that looks good, feels good, and makes me feel sexy, confident, empowered, and beautiful. Over the past few years, I’ve tried many different types of lingerie. Still, nothing has made me feel more sexy or confident than the pieces from IDentity Lingerie.
So, when IDentity Lingerie reached out to me for the chance to collaborate, I immediately jumped at the opportunity. Today, I will share tips on how to feel sexy and build self-confidence with the right piece of lingerie.
Who Is IDentity Lingerie?
Before I share these tips, I have to provide some background information on this company. IDentity Lingerie is a small family-run luxury clothing brand based in Lincolnshire, United Kingdom, specializing in lingerie and nightwear.
They pride themselves on producing high-quality handmade pieces and promoting a healthy body image across all our platforms. In addition, because all the products are handcrafted and often made to offer, they reduce the negative environmental impact of mass production.
Almost every item IDentity sells is sold or refurbished into a different product, so they don’t waste unnecessary materials by making a ton of excess stock. They also aim to create products that will stay relevant and serve people for years instead of chasing the quickly changing fast fashion trends that are harmful to the environment.
One of the things I love most about this fashion brand is its commitment to creating sexy lingerie and nightwear for all bodies. Regardless of their shape or size, every woman deserves to feel celebrated, feel sexy, and look good while doing it. If you want to support a small business and find a great gift for her, then their products are the perfect choice.
What Is Sexiness?
When you think of the word sexiness, you might think about all the physical attributes that go into being sexy: Having a nice body, muscles, cute butt, nice hair…etc. However, sexiness cannot all be about physical attributes. It must also include the person’s mental and emotional state of mind. Like anything else related to physical appearance, the idea of sexiness can affect your self-esteem and mental health.
When I think of being sexy, I don’t think about my appearance. Instead, I think about how fabulous I felt at that moment. That’s what IDentity Lingerie aims to do. Their primary goal is to teach every woman to feel sexy and confident.
Now that you know a bit about who I’m working with, it’s time to learn how to feel sexy and confident in yourself.
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I wouldn’t call myself an expert in all things sex and confidence. No, not at all. However, I consider myself reasonably confident when it comes to how I want to feel and look, which is why I wanted to share these few tips with you on how you can also feel sexy and confident with the right lingerie.
Invest In A Bra or Bralette That Fits & Feels Good
First things first, ladies, you need to have something that feels good on your breasts. Then, investing in the right bra and bralette will help you feel sexy in the long run. Getting the right size bra is essential to the health of your breasts and helps prevent droopiness. Also, wearing a bra or bralette made with high-quality materials helps the earth and you feel great.
I don’t know about you, but when I want to feel sexy or confident, I take out my favorite lace bras and bralettes. While I prefer to wear a matching set, I know finding one is not always easy. While working with IDentity Lingerie, I came across this gorgeous lace bralette that perfectly fits my body type.
I love the bralette I got from them. The support my back gets from it feels unreal, and the padding is just right. The lightweight lace material feels good on my skin, and padded cups provide enough comfort to move around throughout the day.
Pamper Yourself
Front of lace panties from IDentity Lingerie
For women, feeling sexy tends to be tied to how we look and physically feel. So, pampering yourself can mean anything. It can mean taking the day to read a good book by the window or even treating yourself to some candy.
But pampering myself looks like wearing my favorite sexy panties or knickers (that’s what the UK calls them), a T-shirt, and spending the day taking care of my skin. The sexy lace panties that I was gifted fit are super lovely and comfy.
Although it did not come as a matching set, it looks nice when paired with the lace bralette, so I chose them. The detail in the floral pattern in the lace is super attractive and looks good on my skin. Plus, my boyfriend seems to love these as much as I do!
Compliment Yourself Wearing An Elegant Silk Robe
Grab your favorite silk robe and walk to the mirror. Undo the robe and look at yourself. If you have ever been disgusted by your body shape or anything on your body, then now is your chance to start complimenting yourself.
Say, “I am beautiful. I am sexy,” a few times in the mirror until you start to believe it. Trust me. Once you begin to view your body in a sexier way, then you’re going to feel much sexier than before
Wearing this gold silk dressing gown helped me feel more confident and physically empowered. Sometimes, when I look at my body, I’m not too fond of the stretch marks and fat I see. But wearing the Japanese silk rope with the other lingerie looks good and has made me feel sexier. I can tell how good my body looks when I wear it, and those negative thoughts start crawling out.
Conclusion: Other Ways To Feel Sexy
If you’re looking for something that makes you feel good, feel sexy, and look good, I highly recommend checking out IDentity Lingerie. I love all the pieces they sent me, and I wish I’d asked for some silk pajamas, too!
Feeling sexy is a state of mind. If that is your goal, you have to work towards it. It starts with making yourself feel good through different self-care and love practices, like pampering yourself, wearing high-quality materials, exercising, and eating correctly.
If you live outside the United Kingdom, you’re still in luck. Shipping costs less than $15 for all countries outside the United Kingdom. If you live in the United Kingdom, shipping costs less than £15.
How do you make yourself feel sexy? Do you like any of these pieces? Let me know in the comments.
Jeanette says
This is a great post! I’m searching for this company asap. Beautiful gold gown. Thank you for sharing x
Seriah Sargenton says
Jeanette,
Thanks for reading! Please let me know when you get the gown! I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Fransic verso says
This is interesting! paper ourselves is good and always we do it. Thank you for sharing!
Seriah Sargenton says
Fransic,
Thanks for reading!
Christine says
I agree feeling sexy isn’t only about what your wear and how you look in it. When I’m happy and feeling great, I feel better about everything, including how I look. Thanks for sharing the items.
Seriah Sargenton says
Christine,
Yes, feeling sexy shouldn’t only be associated with whether a woman is physically attractive or not. I hope you enjoyed these lingerie pieces.
Charlotte says
I need to invest in good quality and better-fitted bralette. I will definitely check this brand. Thank you for sharing.
Seriah Sargenton says
Charlotte,
Good luck with your search! I hope you find a nice bralette that works for you.
Nyxie says
Your photos are gorgeous! I love these sets – definitely one to check out. I don’t have very much lingerie as I tend to not like them on my body, but I need to get my confidence back up and try them again!
Seriah Sargenton says
Nyxie,
You should definitely check out IDentity Lingerie then! Their entire mission is to make women feel beautiful and more confident.
Eleanor Jones says
I always wear bras that make me feel good now, and I love these tips! Feeling sexy is such an important part of feeling confident x
Seriah Sargenton says
Eleanor,
I’m so happy to hear that you always wear comfy bras. As a large-chested woman, I find it hard always to find bras that fit correctly and are comfortable. I do agree that feeling sexy is a huge part of a woman’s confidence.
AmethystAP says
Great post. Thanks for sharing. I definitely need to invest in some great fitting, high quality lingerie myself. This year I want to work on feeling confident and sexy. Both are mindset shifts worth working on.
Seriah Sargenton says
Hi!
Yess, every woman should invest in at least one good lingerie set for herself. Mindset definitely plays a huge role in whether or not you feel sexy to confident.
Caroline says
Ooh, I love the look of that robe! And I’m all for supporting a small UK business 🙂
Seriah Sargenton says
Caroline,
The gold Japanese robe is my absolute new favorite robe. I don’t think I’ll ever go back to traditional cotton robes.
Lyosha says
nice tips! I think confidence in your own body and feeling sexy are very closely tied and are an issue for many people. Our bodies change and we can’t always see what we want to see in the mirror, often it is impossible to change or change quickly. we still live our lives and get to enjoy it as much as we can
Seriah Sargenton says
Lyosha,
I love how you said this. Our bodies are constantly changing, and us with it. I think it’s important to acknowledge these changes and learn how to embrace them rather than hide behind them.
Nkem says
Loving this post and your promotion of feeling good in your skin. I also loved that bralette.
Seriah Sargenton says
Nkem,
Thanks for reading! This bralette is so nice.
Erica (The Prepping Wife) says
I love that you mention felling sexy is not just how our bodies look, but it is also partially attitude and self-image too. I had never heard of this company before, but I’m definitely going to check them out, especially since they ship to the US too. I always feel sexy in a great robe, so the gold one you showed here certainly got my attention. I think for me, it is really finding lingerie that is comfortable on top of being beautiful. No matter how it looks, it will never make me feel sexy if it isn’t comfortable to wear. Which it sounds like this company aims for right along with style, and that is important. Thank you for sharing such a great company with us!
Seriah Sargenton says
Erica,
Thanks for such a thoughtful comment. I agree that feeling sexy really isn’t about how you look. It really is about how you feel and how comfortable you are wearing the outfits you choose. I think you’re going to enjoy the lingerie and robe selections IDentity has to offer.